Self esteem in dating a Russian pen pal

Love to you is the source of feeling of self-respect, the basis of our self-esteem. When it is extremely low, people begin to reproach themselves, become insecure. When it is too high, the gap between the claims and real possibilities is enormous, our behavior becomes inadequate, worried, emotional breakdowns are imminent.
And otherwise, those who evaluate themselves too realistically are permanently in the state of depression. If the person can create some positive illusions thinking about him as a cleverer or smarter person is calm and happy. It is much better to over-estimate yourself and forget about the characteristics that worry. So, if someone says about you that you are mean, charming, witty, and a bit aggressive, it is better to remember the words with positive connotation, i.e. charming, witty, and maybe aggressive. That will also help you in dating a Russian bride, as they may the truth you won’t like, just be selective to the information your pen pal from Russia says.

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