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10-05-09 |
Difficulties when dating a foreign girl: political views |
British experts consider that one of the main conditions of living happily together is consent of political interests. Sounds strange and a bit primitive you may think. Among my American friends there was a couple that parted as he had always been a republican and she suddenly became a democrat. But if you have different views on politics or something else, is it not the reason to give up and break the relations. On the contrary, you can turn it your account. It is why you really need. There is such a technique of communication called “echo” and it consists in repeating the last word of your foreign woman, this way making her go on speaking. For example: “in my opinion that guy is a wonderful politician…” You: “Wonderful politician?” – “Yes, because he…” and so on. Probably you are not interested in that politician, and you are not interested in the opinion of your foreign girl, but she will appreciate your attention, interest, and desire to understand her. That will make your foreign mailorderbride love you even more. Only don’t go too far, or the girl may think you are her favorite parrot. |
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